martes, 17 de agosto de 2010

Does the SIZE really matters?

Today I got a revelation: all the things I believed about Richard's feelings for me are true! That only demostrates that I know him so good that we don't even need words... that's sweet.. friends do that kind of things. All this happended listening to Paolo Nutini, wich my dearest friend Naughty Prraka will totally understand why is this so important! and after a lovely afternoon of drinking coffee, watch series with Richard and talk about the past and the present I had to call my BFF to talk about everything and anything and we (of course) ended talking about guys... guys from the past, from the present and from the future.
Going back to my past I couldn't avoid ask myself: Does the size really matters? For me I thought it was: buying shoes was always terrible for me until I got to this wonderful country where everyone is huge and women need bigger shoes. Then, there is the size of the clothes of course.. now with the internet shopping you have to take very good care about your size.
About men, I always had felt atracted to tall ones and so, I have been always dating tall ones until I met Jack. He's not really short actually, but short enough to look short to me, but the truth is that I like him soooo much.. does this mean something? And Brian? He's short enough too but kisses sooo good!!! May I forget the shortyness because they are good in everything else?
What about in bed? does that size matters?
For us it does! We have never really see a shorty or a skinny sized guy more than once if he was so... the guys we have keep seing are because they satisfy us in all possible ways. We think that's a very important part of a good relationship.. no matter what kind of relationship: husband, boyfriend, friend-with-rights....
And for the girls? should it be the same way? should we have to be great in bed for our guys?
I definetly think so! After years of experience, reading, investigating and asking my girlfriends, size is important in girls too! We have to match with our man and satisfy him in every way so that niether they or we have to look for something else out of the relationship.
Conclusion: it does matters... in bed but not necessary out of it.
And what about the amount of years knowing a friend... Is it a type of size too? does this give us rights to date them again even if they date someone else?

XoXo

Dirrty Prraka

domingo, 15 de agosto de 2010

Giving stars

Today, I was wondering about the guys in our lives... we spend the day knowing we are fabulous, but when suddenly a guy doesn't demostrate that to us, all that selfconfidence just vanished.. WHY??? We, women, ARE fabulous. We should think about that more often, no jerk should take that away from us! And belive me, there have been a loooot of jerks in my life. So, I decided to do a list: name of the guy and stars he deserves.. some just doesn't count because there were starless, or I don't remember or I want to forget them.
Do we all have a list? I had one once but I throw it away when I started to see there were too many dorks in there! Why is that we always like idiots the most? As I already told, I'm stopping date frogs.
This chart made me think about my relationships: this friend of mine, the norwegian one, Jack, is the best relationship I have! Five star guy, amazing in bed, intelligent, handsome, lots of things in common, and understands what I want: be with him when I'm with him. It can sound complicated but it's not. We live too far away, so, we enjoy ourselves every time we see eachother! I find it unbelivable that so many men can't accept that sometimes, WE, Women want to have something like this: no complication full fun time! Lot of times, guys act inmature and invent in their own brains that if we date them is exclusively because we want to marry them! Oh Hell No! but does that still exists? Marriage?
Anyway...Of the guys I gave five stars... I have to say that this one is the only one with I really wouln't mind spent the rest of my life. It would be definetly a non-stop fun life! Just like it should be: a 5 star life!

XoXo

Dirrty Prraka